Travelling Without Connections: Part 3

I have, in fact, spent time away from my computer!

The Attempts

Having talked about the gut-wrenchingly scary moments of lacking an Internet connection, there are some fairly unorthodox ways both Amelia and I would try to get WiFi connections.

  • I stood on top of a bench in the middle of a national park to get a good connection.
  • At my hostel near Yosemite, I sat in a public toilet for an hour because the WiFi connection was the best in that spot.
  • Amelia would hang out in certain shops on Franklin Street (Chapel Hill’s main street) to ensure she stayed connected to UNC’s WiFi.
  • In a hotel I stayed at, I was forced to restart my iPad once an hour since the WiFi connection would short out after a certain period of time and would refuse to let me back on without a restart. Annoyed me to no end but I was too lazy to dig out my laptop from my suitcase.
  • During my stay in Miami, the WiFi suddenly stopped working when I needed to print my bus tickets and I spent a solid hour trying to figure out how to access the tickets on my laptop when I only had the link in my emails. I forgot about the hotspot feature of my phone completely and am embarrassed at how long it took me to remember its existence.

I’ve also revelled in the lack of connection. The four days without a SIM card meant that I controlled communication with my family, and to avoid my mum’s nagging I would just refuse to turn on the WiFi during the times I knew she’d be awake. Being able to shake off my family’s protective blanket and be on my own for the first time in my life granted me an enormous sense of independence and freedom.

From my own experiences and my chats with Amelia, it’s become clear that millennials tend to rely on a WiFi connection a lot, preferring to stay in touch rather than let go of the responsibility to keep in contact with our friends and family back home. Amelia named at least three connective devices that she brought with her – I myself had four. It’s uncommon to leave laptops and tablets behind at home, even for short trips. I consider it a gift that I’m able to stay so close to my family and friends, even though my reliance on this technology has proven to stress me out remarkably during various situations.

Travelling Without Connections: Part 2

Yosemite’s a reception dead zone – oh WiFi, where did you go?

The Fear

My unsettling experiences of lacking WiFi are mirrored with my friend Amelia’s, as I’ve said in my previous post. But despite our difficulties in finding a connection, this isn’t a regular occurrence in America: there’s a Starbucks at every corner, free WiFi in almost any cafe or fast-food restaurant. Amelia didn’t buy a SIM card for her smartphone whilst she was in America and is an exception. In the Facebook group for that semester’s exchangees, with over 70 members, there were several posts debating which phone provider to use, sharing family plans, which phone plan would be best; to the best of my knowledge, very few people didn’t get an American SIM. In our conversations throughout the time we’ve known each other, Amelia’s mentioned that it was challenging to go without one and only have to rely on free WiFi – she would feel stressed when she went outside her “safe” zones of the campus and town of Chapel Hill.

During some of my travels, I came to view free WiFi as a blessing; specifically during my holiday to Yosemite. Yosemite and my hostel received absolutely zero reception (at least for my AT&T SIM). I relied on free WiFi completely for three or four days. In addition to this, my monthly plan needed renewing and I could barely find a place that received even one bar of connection in the park. I stood on top of a bench for five minutes whilst calling my provider to renew my pre-paid SIM. I would say this this moment was one of the most terrifying of my life: I had only a small window of time to call AT&T to renew my plan or I would risk not having data and minutes for another two or three days. That the last bus of the day was to arrive at any moment during my call had me shaking with worry that I wouldn’t be able to renew my plan in time. This heavy reliance on Internet has me worried for how I’m to travel to other, more remote places in the world. My talks with my tutor revealed that people used to travel and not keep in touch with their friends and relatives, whereas now we stay tightly connected to everyone back home and are constantly updating people on our journeys. I simply can’t imagine not having the ability to let my loved ones know where I am in the world; where a lack of connection worries me, people used to revel in it!

Knowing Amelia and I went through the same trials together gives me a modicum of reassurance, that I’m not the only one so attached to the Internet. Even now, we rely on the Internet to talk, regularly using Facebook messenger and Skype to talk to each other. Amelia’s said she even uses FB messenger to chat to her friends at home in England, even though she’s got her English SIM back and has been home for some time now!

Travelling Without Connections: Part 1

My victory dance when I activated my American SIM.
Time seems to drag ever so slowly when one has nothing to do. I’ve discovered that this also goes for when one lacks a connection to the Internet. During the planning stages of this project, I was sure that I had spent over a week in America without a SIM card in my phone – and thus without a guaranteed connection to the Internet.

I unearthed my folder of American adventures – a plastic sleeve of all the documents I’ve accrued from my exchange. I happened to have kept the receipt from AT&T from when I bought my SIM. It’s dated as the 19th of August. I arrived in America on the 15th of August. Though I could have sworn I had suffered longer under the stress of not being connected, it was only for four short days. How could I have been so wrong? Was it that my mum’s constant nagging about getting a SIM card seemed to have gone on for a longer period of time? Did the lack of available WiFi so distinctly affect me that my memories are distorted?

My generation is used to having access to the Internet 24/7. In terms of travel, almost a third of Gen Y uses only the Internet to plan their holidays and adventures. We’re more flexible in our plans and travels, as well (Kim et al. 2015). But as a result, we experience anxiety when we are without an Internet connection. I felt this stress very soon after landing at LAX: the LAX airport WiFi wouldn’t let me FaceTime my parents, and texts weren’t guaranteed to go through without me re-sending them several times. I broke out in a cold sweat when I realised I couldn’t immediately reach my parents to let them know that my plane had landed. My British friend Amelia, who I met on exchange at UNC, also experienced this – twice at two different airports – and describes the scary feeling she got when realising she couldn’t easily contact anyone.

And so for the next few blog posts, I will strive to tell more of the highs and lows connecting to how we as Gen Y deal when we lack connections during travel. Telling it through this blog is an obvious choice for me – my entire travel experience is laid out here, neatly categorised, easily available for further reading and references. Along with this reasoning, the best way to tell this sort of story is through the use of a blog. Blogging has grown popular and is easily accessible; book publishers have even started experimenting with digital storytelling with great success. Meg Cabot’s The Boy Next Door, published in 2002, is written in the format of emails. The use of a digital platform such as a blog enables its creator to look back at their work, giving them a definitive record which can’t be lost (Kirk & Pitches 2013).

Kim, H, Xiang, Z & Fesenmaier, D 2015, ‘Use of the Internet for Trip Planning: a Generational Analysis’, Journal of Travel & Tourism, vol. 32, no. 3, pp. 276-289.

Kirk, C, & Pitches, J 2013, ‘Digital reflection: using digital technologies to enhance and embed creative processes’, Technology, Pedagogy & Education, vol. 22, no. 2, pp. 213-230.

The Need for Permission and Rules

This was fine to share on Snapchat with my friends, but should I have uploaded it to my blog? I can’t quite decide.

In public spaces, we have to be conscious of others. Public spaces and their peace hinges on us knowing the rules of behaviour. And one of these rules revolves around the ethics of photography or videoing others without their permission. I’m not talking about up-skirt shots (which shouldn’t exist in the first place), but the accidental appearance of you or your friends in the background of a tourist’s family photo, or a street photographer capturing you sitting pretty under a tree. Continue reading

My Thoughts Wandered

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Having worked next door to a bar that was crowded on weekend nights and where cheers (or boos) could be periodically heard due to the weekly football games shown, I know what it’s like to have distractions in the public space. At an internship I did, they played music in the background and I wore headphone solely to block it out. My grandfather likes to listen to the news on TV at the loudest volume setting. And with these constant distractions, how are we supposed to concentrate on any one thing?

When I notice that my mind has been somewhere else during a meeting, I wonder what opportunities I’ve been missing right here.
Daniel Goleman

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Your Rights to People and Places

I would’ve gone if my local cinema looked like this! Source

Our task was to go to the movies this week, and observe human interactions and movements. For this assignment, we were to use Torsten Hagerstrand’s “Time Geography” theory as the basis of our observations and research for the excursion – or if we weren’t able to go to the movies, we were to deduce what stopped us. To break it down, Hagerstrand created three constraints to human movement.

  1. Capability – limitations to what individuals are and aren’t capable of doing
  2. Coupling – limitations to when, where, and for how long an individual can join with others to interact
  3. Authority  – limitations to the level of authority and/or permission individuals have to be in a certain place at a certain time

With these three constraints in mind, I deduced that I had capability limitations, in that I had neither the time nor inner will to go see a movie. Also, there just weren’t any good movies on at the time that I could justify spending $15 on (because this is how expensive movies are getting and I just do not like it). Continue reading

The Sticky Webs of Connection

Moscow Domes
I’ve never been to Moscow, but nevertheless I feel connected to this city through my family and heritage. Source

We’re connected to people, places, cultures, things. This has always been the case, but in the last thirty years those connections have expanded to a new dimension: online. Social media, blogs, vlogs, even the darknet – our presence has slowly leeched to the almost untouchable. A dimension which we can’t physically enter.

The ways we can access the web is almost endless. Smartphones, laptops, tablets, and computers serve as our vehicles. Cafes, universities, homes, and shopping centres serve as our gateways. Continue reading

Technology Through Time & Space

Dad wishes! Source

I asked my dad about his most vivid TV memory and he immediately answered that it was the day he bought a surround sound system for the TV. He recalls being amazed at the new technology available, especially for the home. My dad is nuts about technology and seems to literally thrive on the advancements. Our home is filled with computers, tablets, telescopes (he is an avid astronomer as well, and owns a telescope that rivals me in height), multiple laptops, and an enormous TV that only he actually watches. Honestly, I’ve forgotten how to even switch the channel on the TV. Continue reading

Me, Again

Me emerging from my blogging hiatus.

Another year, another subject to blog for! BCM240 is titled “Media, Audience, Place” so an introduction post is necessary as this subject will be focusing on our presences in the media and media spaces and how we interact with and use those media and media spaces. It’s a lot more technical and thought-inducing than other blogging that I’ve done, and I’m going to spend this semester over-analysing every move I make on the Internet – but in a fun way.

Not that BCM is the first time I’ve ever put fingers to keyboard in an effort to make myself heard on the Internet. It seems I’m one of the teens who’s had a blog for years and years whereas a lot of my classmates hadn’t even had the idea until uni asked them to create a blog. Which is cool, because they’re the ones who didn’t have to deal with the crippling rejection of only having your post viewed by five individuals.

I’ve always been online and if I recall correctly I’ve had around five blogs. The most successful was a book review blog that I ran for two years before school got in the way. From there I moved onto collaborating with another book reviewer who invited me to guest post and then asked me to stay. The most fun experience that occurred from blogging is meeting some of my favourite authors. I went to book conventions, signings, and interviewed quite a few authors who meandered down to the humble little island of Australia. Sadly that blog got deleted when I forgot to transfer it to my new email and deleted the old email (thanks Blogger).

So yeah, I’ve definitely had practice at this blogging thing.

The Turning Point: Why I Went Vegetarian


On the 23rd of March I sat down in my BCM310 tutorial and watched exactly how Australian cattle in Indonesia are slaughtered (ABC’s “A Bloody Business”). I couldn’t stay for the second hour to watch the Blackfish documentary because it would have hurt me too much. I walked out of there with a promise to give up eating meat and so far, I haven’t broken it. My twin sister has been vegan for almost two years and constantly pressures the rest of my family to go vegan. I’d ignored her because I really like meat. Why would I give that up? But this video changed my mind completely. I was on the brink of tears. And I realised that despite how good meat tastes, I couldn’t be a willing party to the animal cruelty that exists in almost every animal-driven industry. The “open secret” of meat industries became too much to bear for me.

The motivation of giving up meat flagged during the first fortnight. I’d have late-night cravings for burgers, kebabs, chicken; basically all I wanted to eat when I was hungry was meat. Late-night cravings hit me so hard for the first month. My sister constantly shares videos about veganism on my Facebook timeline but all I had to do was think back to the single doco I’d watched to stay away from meat. It was hard though.

This topic ties back to humans in the media. The way we view animal welfare in the media isn’t taken seriously enough. Animals, inherently helpless and voiceless, need us to fight for their rights and lives. We can’t just spend a week outraged at Indonesian cattle abattoirs. We can’t give up bacon for the weekend and then give in to cravings. We need to lend animals our voices and our compassion to end the cruel treatment they endure every day of their lives. The benefits of giving up meat include helping the environment and keeping families together. It’s eye-opening to learn that animals are intelligent and compassionate beings. Their high cognition means that most will die scared. That is not the way I want any animal’s life to end.